sensible balance between optimism and pessimism:

Morgan Housel on finding the sensible balance between optimism and pessimism:

“Optimism is usually defined as a belief that things will go well. But that’s incomplete. Sensible optimism is a belief that the odds are in your favor, and over time things will balance out to a good outcome even if what happens in between is filled with misery. And in fact you know it will be filled with misery. You can be optimistic that the long-term growth trajectory is up and to the right, but equally sure that the road between now and then is filled with landmines, and always will be. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.”

He also writes:

“Optimism and pessimism can coexist. If you look hard enough you’ll see them next to each other in virtually every successful company and successful career. They seem like opposites, but they work together to keep everything in balance.”

Source: The Psychology of Money

lets accept the fact

Is there any deficiency in your soul and character? Is there any incorrigible grandiose behaviour?

You deny to acknowledge this all. And you know that Your soul is indubitably immaculate and pristine. When it comes about the emotions, there is no any needs to beg to the person who don’t give a fuck about your enthusiasm, your way to take care of, your way of loving and talking. If you start evoking the moments and time being with that person gently and in an overall way, you will end up with the nutshell of that person being insidious in your life. That’s incredible to find the portion in which the flow of a relationship went wrong.

I wanna ask you guys what would you do if you find out the next person in a relationship is completely detrimental to you and completely changed?

And you know what, in spite of that ,most of the people here would choose to get involved with that person. What makes it so hard to just leave and move on and get rid of nightmarish and malicious one instead. Why there is the necessity to demonstrate the whining and crying to the walls and nature. After witnessing a lot of unmitigated sabotaging and destruction being enticed by love and attachment,you are willing to fall for a totally wrong look and appearance. Think and live.

Someday we all were shattered

now how we wanna rise really matters.

Merely experience can bestow you the life lesson

Forget that we can do an expulsion.

Perceive about how to reinstate your way of living

And commence to love yourself and keep dreaming.

Self-centered

What do they desire?

They desire every good thing that solely happens to them. They want to live in a happy environment, it doesn’t matter how. In order to pursue comfort they are willing to sabotage the happiness of others.

Have you ever taken this into consideration that chasing the comfort and ecstasy for oneself could turn the life of the next person into wretchedness and debacle. Who takes care of others right? We do but merely about oneself. Meanwhile, it’s kind of a rhetorical question.

Draft

Scars of some unpleasant events could be indelibly stained in your skull. They could tarnish your sanity and natural shine and yet you are the merely one who knows what’s your authentic inner beauty and your capabilities to prevail over anything you yearn. Never easily relinquish whatever you need to confront. The more they hustle you ,the more you become steady and vigorous. Where there is nothing else there is all alone you along with hope. There is always a scenic side of yours which has been waiting thinking that when would we go to release it from hidden and secreted draft. Listen to the music of your inner self. You will find each and every lyric profoundly deep and meaningful. You will hear the whining and weeping , agony as well through the lyrics of inner and hidden self. He has been waiting for you since that awful event.Grasp him, motivate him and tell him that everything is going to be alright and there will certainly come a day to reign in delight. Have patience and eventually everything you urge will be in your foot removing your dust and dirt.

midnight intellect

12:00

Sitting in the nook having a gargantuan appetite of unwanted thought. What makes the circumstances worse than the usual?

Overthinking about life of love and life of the future. Is this happening because of traumatic experiences in the past? Or couldn’t it be incredibly therapeutic?

When you jettison exquisite moments of life and cling to the awful nostalgic memories, what is to be done buddy?

Time to get up and sprouts the positive vibes profusely. Prevalent philanthropy to high extent. Besides, live your life to the fullest embracing vicissitudes.

Love For All, Hatred For None.
Khalifatul Masih III

Void

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The world around you is deficient, it’s not perfect. We could be or could not be conditioned by it. it relies on us. What do you think you are?- a fragile and delicate creature or a creature who has the audacity to cope with turbulence and menace throughout life.

You are solely responsible for what you are and where you are. We cannot point out others for our circumstances. We cannot be fragile souls to make a decision of our life. You need to be robust and confident. There are lots of accomplishments which have been waiting for so long. we need to kiss those accomplishments. do not flee away from your life. It is all what you have got. Grasp it in good and hard times. and It’s your responsibility to enhance,modify and fight vigorously to acquire dreams and accomplishments. Noone is going to do this for you.

       Dark and light, happy and sad, love and hatred. depression and isolation,trauma and anxiety, grief, remorse and the void, they all are associated with us. They all are a part of our entire journey. You can't evade from these events. They are formidable, however they teach you the best lesson and strengthen you from the inside out. Cleanse your whining heart. Fill the void with hope and faith.

Grant yourself whatever you’ve been through. Everyone out there contradicts you ,leave your side. Ultimately, you are all alone. You got your own back. You must shift the feeling of self-loathing to self-loving. Elope with your thoughts and ambitions rather than crappy crap.Then you were alone, rejected and inappropriate for someone but now you are healed,prolific,balanced and appropriate for oneself. You changed yourself dramatically. You are adequate and effervescent about yourself. You intensified yourself through rough patches, drought of attachment and love when needed the most.

Not everything lingers here, not even your unfavorable situation and journey full of ventures. There will come a culmination of every single bad moment. So cling with yourself. You are the precious commodity. What matters here is you, merely you. you must hope and faith that you will arise again completely even more stronger and sophisticated. Do not let them break you,trample and ridicule you. Sometimes,You have to play an excruciating game to get triumph. Triumph over negativity , over baddest ass, over cruelty ,over anti humanitarianism. You need to be conscious about what your inner self wants, shape your life accordingly and navigate your pathway towards a cascade of authenticity and bliss you want. It’s only you who regulate your temperament and pitfalls.

Modify yourself until you feel free. The world keeps oppressing you until you prioritize your self-worth. It’s arduous to unlearn unessential insights and re-learn essential one. Sometimes it is better to start over and live with peace and laughter.

Thank you.

We can fill the void not only being loved and cared , however also involved with mother nature. Feel it.