I adore myself

you are as enough beautiful as someone else,

you too deserve most loving and happiest self,

do not strangle oneself buddy, you too are a same creature as other as God carved,

just say every day, I adore myself and only myself.

When every time you feel gloomy,

just remind yourself that there will advent next fascinating morning,

just do not decide anything wicked and malicious buddy, you will again be shining,

you fell down multiple times but sooner you will be climbing.

who told you that you are an eyesore?

rather, you are a remarkable and intriguing soul

which indeed needs to be treasure,

dont go for people’s words, their perceptions are just cripple,

they never let you stay in peace and settle

just say to yourself, I adore myself and myself.

even after every clamor, there comes a calmness,

live your life to the fullest and feel proud rejecting every numbness,

dont give a fu*k about other’s dumbness,

thrive in every kind of predicament and loneliness.

you need just more time to mull over,

your toxic wills need to be over,

stay in your own endearing boulevard of imagination,

we will acquire lots of soothing and positive ruminations

I vouch you that everything will be alright,

just keep patience, there will be more astounding nights and sites,

god will bestow everything you deserve in the right time and right place,

you just dont relinquish yet,

we will together expel these mess,

just say every day to yourself, I adore myself and myself.

those scares and bruises of battle of love will fade away ultimately,

not everything lingers here (bad times), they will fade away shortly.

You matter and your existence too, indubitably,

Just say to yourself every day, I am best and I can accomplish everything,

we will rise from nothing to something to everything.

cheers!

Despair

Let the suppressed emotions burst out my dear,

It is fine, if you are intimidated,

Nobody here is wholly reputed,

Even your life is somehow regulated…

“I am fed up with my life.” he replied ultimately,

Not everything is real and trustworthy here,

Not have got any remarkable moments and stuff to cheer,

there is only despair and despair..

I scarcely recognise these people now,

Those idolatry and affection which i used to believe is just a fairytale now,

All those dreams are in the stage of drowning now,

Only despair and despair remained now…

I am not tryna spread out unpleasantries and disgust here,

Just inner insecurities and overthinking is killing me here,

Believe that, someone out there has the same story to share,

There might only despair and despair to hear.

I’m begrimed with these stupid thought,

But, there is literally no one to make a single call,

I frequently think, it is better to creep towards drugs,

There is only despair and despair to share….

Roads of love were convoluted to perceive,

Despite, i somehow managed long to drive,

But not for long enough of what i had desired,

Impending days were going to be melancholic and wretched,

There was a never ending crave of despair and despair…

2021

2020, people believe that it is a sheer nightmare which brings devastation, tragedy, griefs. If you begin your quest in the news genre, you’ll get to see millions of people who lost their vitality. I would rather say we lost our closed and loved ones like the sun loses its brightness. Moreover, it seems like living in a loop of death that we aren’t aware of when it hunts us down. Throughout the entire year terror and tears completely has become a dominant factor. We still have been trying to prevail over the disorder which is accountable for sculpting new maps of way of living, rather a different dimension.

New year is approaching in which many people have hope to blossom again, hope to move on, forgetting all the tragic events that happened in the 2020 that have slowed down every sector around you i.e education, economy, development works, industry, etc. It’s worth pointing out that this year taught us a strong chapter and made us realise the worth of life and family. As all go down in flames, we are not the same as before, you are changed and I’m a changed person. Perspective turns out, intuition suppressed, the world fell apart, sanity level down to insanity.

Life has just begun. That was just a drop in the ocean. We are not sure about what’s coming to us, all we could do is just hope for the best and order. I have to say, you don’t have to completely agree to me, but it is what it is. As I said before, hope is what we could only do, so hope, you will have an upcoming year positive and as you expected. Hopefully, every tear converts into ecstasy, every agony converts into a weapon to vanquish futuristic chaos, every loss converts into a fulfillment and adequacy of love into your life.

Happy less dismal new year than 2020. Lets not recall all the shivering series of events that happened in this year. Here we should move on from the disastrous year. Hopefully, all my friends, colleagues, acquaintances, all the lovers and well wishers out there remain steady and healthy, both mentally and physically. I wish they would die(not die) after consuming or going through all the accomplishments and pleasantries in their life. Everything befalls what we deserve.

Hello 2021, here we march on. -biplov

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Ultimately, here comes a day again to walk in a narrow hilly road through which you can glance breathing taking scenery and resplendent landscape. This road navigates you to home that you were desperately waited to go. This feeling is inexplicable.

Throughout your journey, you are going to challenge by rough patches and land disturbance. There is more likely you could stumble into stone and fall down but you won’t be maimed since wound will be healed by the aroma of soil.

be kind and spread philanthropy .

You will be exhausted and sweaty but that tiredness will be alleviated by the pure and fresh air directly come from the source. You will feel thirsty and sleepy but when you pour nectar like water into your mouth, you will feel invigorated and briskly. Wicked and inappropriate notions could be raised into your intellectual property but songs sing by the birds will soothe and re-install positive vibes.

totally lost.

The power of nature which you couldn’t be attuned of. It almost took me 20 years to get the epiphany that what nature can transfigure you into. If you do prefer to indulge yourself in nature then you will get to know your inmost you. if you delve the nature, you will be able to get serenity which is rarest but everyone is seeking for.

In the contrary, Life there(city) is utter chaos and polluted. Yes, I do completely agree that environment of opportunities, choices and options are available over there but what about the environment we need? This would be so bizarre for you guys but this is already deeply rooted in everyone’s life. Millions of people have to abandon their hometown and reason behind are job, colleges, universities and for better Healthcare. Among millions, one might be you who is going through these predicament and abominable circumstances. You might not have any option but the one and merely option to leave your origin to pursue and accomplish your and parent’s dreams. This is excruciating to survive away from your parent and neglecting the nature for opportunity most of the year in your life.

what is our sacrifice for?

for perversion our health: physical, intellectual…?

If we can’t optimise time with our beloved parents when they have got healthy time then what is all this for? One day, you will enhance yourself in a deserving and remarkable stage of life but what if unfortunately, they won’t be there to applause and laud your performance??????

This is a fact that people themselves make life a complicated puzzle and give invitation to a chaos and turmoil. We are suffering in circumstances and stuck into the obligations created by people and the world carved by prodigious intellect. We all are enslaved by our own innermost notions and terror of failures. We are motivated by the duty rather than enthusiasm and interests. It is a challenging task to evade from the entrapments founded by people themselves. We are frantically attempting to be someone remarkable since the rituals of world coercing you to do so. For instance: If someone is making a real progress, then society and relatives automatically starts building a despondent innuendo like: his son/daughter is in that position, making this much money and all. In a nutshell, comparison killing our happiness and sprouting conflict and chaos.

you are uniquely designed and got own abilities.

speck

Speck… we’ve witnessed what a speck of dirt is capable of. Indubitably, whole lots of decoration, spotless fashion, luxuries, natural exquisite pale complexion can be altered and deteriorated just by a speck. That sounds kinda horrible, doesn’t it? Who would like to have a speck on their occasional costumes. Who would like to be ruined by a spot.

For instance, it is the very first day at your school and accidentally the moving car spits mud into your brand new uniform, what would your reaction be? Like an Outrageous bull directed towards nowhere. It’s like an entrapment in your own anger and grudges. In this kind of scenario, specks are largely attributable to embarrassment, shamefulness.

If you have time to gaze around your circle, everything seems speckled and quite messed up. Nothing is perfectly spotless here. Spotless per se a speck. Moreover, Life is built up with the specks. Likewise speck of disappointments, speck of failure, speck of heart broken, speck of dreams, speck of ambitions, speck of faith, never ending series.

“Can’t we change a miserable and a pathetic environment with just a speck of smile and positivity”?- Biplop Pandey

In the contemporary time, seemingly, people value more man-made stuff relatively to each other’s existence. I would like to elucidate this, gradually artificial stuff is dictating and controlling people’s impulses and their requisites. If you are being dubious then simply critique your daily life schedule. You don’t feel normal, if one day you don’t take your cell phone whilst poo. You don’t feel like showering, if the music ceases playing in between. And that is today’s reality. It concludes that we are habituated and accustomed to artificial inventories and technologies. consequently, that is the superior speck of extinction of humanity. This speck we are talking about is extremely perilous. It actually is accountable for all the proliferation of chaos and turbulence around people which totally changes the shape and mindset of them. The more enlightening ourselves, the more we are becoming simpleton and imbecile.

Even though you somehow managed to come through a speck of dirt on your fashions, it will be completely different than that if you encounter the speck of dirt on someone’s character. Bruises and cuts can heal by time but the implications of chronic dark speck of intention and conscience to the people are less likely to be healed and get rid of.

It’s simple to figure out whether you’ve got that black spot inside you or not. Your perception towards the other people reveals the intensity of your dark speck. If the intensity of that dark speck is high, it implies your resentment, frustration and grudges to the other people. So means completely negative. On the contrary, If the intensity of that speck is low as it changes to white from black. It implies your good will toward other people.

So decide which one you are into.

deep deeper deepest

We’ll again be laughing and indulging somewhere. That time the laughter will be from origin of the heart. And your laughter will provide the spark of vitality, rejuvenation, invigoration.

Though, we have come into the race of triumph and defeat later but we gonna end up in somewhere we always wished for.

Masquerading, forging, disguising, faking, concealing, that’s what we’ve been pushing ourselves through. your inner emotion are being concealed and that’s due to the fact that you are frighten to reveal what you originally feel about. even smile on the face is being masqueraded to exhibit the world that you are more than happy. furthermore, life is being disguised cuz we aren’t being okay to reveal our originality, our origin. why are we ashamed of those who don’t give a damn? what should we presume, living a satisfying life disguising and pretending that who we aren’t or accepting that is a flamboyant way to live and survive in this era. it is a utter enigma.

I would make a point that we are the merely one who are enslaving and trampling ourselves in fictional cell not the people around you. that’s certainly happening because before indulging and doing something we really like and love, we start critiquing implications and perish our impulses and stuff what we wanted to do.

why can’t we just liberate ourselves from those foreseeable implications and results? why can’t we just live at the moment? why can’t we just stop thinking about other’s perception towards us?

Assist yourself to become the type of person you wished to be.

The Pareto Principle

At the time, Pareto was studying wealth in various nations. As he was Italian, he began by analyzing the distribution of wealth in Italy. To his surprise, he discovered that approximately 80 percent of the land in Italy was owned by just 20 percent of the people. Similar to the pea pods in his garden, most of the resources were controlled by a minority of the players.

Pareto continued his analysis in other nations and a pattern began to emerge. For instance, after poring through the British income tax records, he noticed that approximately 30 percent of the population in Great Britain earned about 70 percent of the total income.¹

As he continued researching, Pareto found that the numbers were never quite the same, but the trend was remarkably consistent. The majority of rewards always seemed to accrue to a small percentage of people. This idea that a small number of things account for the majority of the results became known as the Pareto Principle or, more commonly, the 80/20 Rule.²

And the 80/20 Rule is more prevalent now than ever before.

For example, through the 2015-2016 season in the National Basketball Association, 20 percent of franchises have won 75.3 percent of the championships. Furthermore, just two franchises—the Boston Celtics and the Los Angeles Lakers—have won nearly half of all the championships in NBA history. Like Pareto’s pea pods, a few teams account for the majority of the rewards. ³

The numbers are even more extreme in soccer. While 77 different nations have competed in the World Cup, just three countries—Brazil, Germany, and Italy—have won 13 of the first 20 World Cup tournaments.

Examples of the Pareto Principle exist in everything from real estate to income inequality to tech startups. In the 1950s, three percent of Guatemalans owned 70 percent of the land in Guatemala. In 2013, 8.4 percent of the world population controlled 83.3 percent of the world’s wealth. In 2015, one search engine, Google, received 64 percent of search queries.^{4 5 6} [-via james clear]

FOOTNOTES

These numbers are covered in Pareto’s book, Cours d’économie politique.
Pareto published this discovery in 1906 in a book titled, Manual of Political Economy. As I noted here, the 80/20 Rule does not mean the numbers involved must be 80 and 20. It’s just a shorthand way of referring to the idea that the majority of the rewards go to a minority of the players.
The Pareto Principle shows up constantly in sports. In the National Football League, the top 19 percent of the franchises have won 57 percent of the Super Bowls. In Major League Baseball, the top 20 percent of the franchises have won 62 percent of World Series championships.
Global Wealth Report by Credit Suisse. October 2013.
U.S. Desktop Search Engine Rankings by comScore. October 2015.
This pattern shows up in negative ways as well. In 2002, Microsoft analyzed their software errors and noticed that “about 20 percent of the bugs cause 80 percent of all errors” and “1 percent of bugs caused half of all errors.” This quote comes from an email sent to enterprise customers by Steve Ballmer on October 2, 2002. The full quote was, “About 20 percent of the bugs causes 80 percent of all errors, and—this is stunning to me—1 percent of bugs caused half of all errors.”

WHY?

Why is this becoming arduous to control over leftover sentiments?

Why is this likely to be impossible to draw a legitimate aggrements?

Till when we keep doing humanity and philantropy assassins?

Why does it feel like it is unattainable to conceive genuine and real moments?

How come nobody wants to talk about empathy and not try to manifest lenient?

Why is this becoming arduous to get triumph over such malignant?

Do you believe this is the end imminent?

indeed

“Success is largely the failures you avoid.

Health is the injuries you don’t sustain.

Wealth is the purchases you don’t make.

Happiness is the objects you don’t desire.

Peace of mind is the arguments you don’t engage.

Avoid the bad to protect the good.”

Hat tip to Morgan Housel for sparking this idea.

sensible balance between optimism and pessimism:

Morgan Housel on finding the sensible balance between optimism and pessimism:

“Optimism is usually defined as a belief that things will go well. But that’s incomplete. Sensible optimism is a belief that the odds are in your favor, and over time things will balance out to a good outcome even if what happens in between is filled with misery. And in fact you know it will be filled with misery. You can be optimistic that the long-term growth trajectory is up and to the right, but equally sure that the road between now and then is filled with landmines, and always will be. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.”

He also writes:

“Optimism and pessimism can coexist. If you look hard enough you’ll see them next to each other in virtually every successful company and successful career. They seem like opposites, but they work together to keep everything in balance.”

Source: The Psychology of Money